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From your experience, would you agree that this is a fairly basic requirement that is common to most forums?
Yes.
So, by posting about assumptivity, terminology, and even 'multi-headed hydras' on a thread dedicated to Braid Analysis, you were flagrantly disregarding it, and continued to do so in the face of my objections.
That depends on the definition of "relevant" and "topics". Everything said was related to sudoku, which I think is the most important criterion. We also did talk about braiding as well, so it was not all off-topic even on that level. Also, I wouldn't personally mind if a thread started by me took side branches -- as they sometimes have -- so I couldn't automatically empathize with your reactions (but I try to remember from now on). For example, the very first thread I started resulted in a side discussion about Exocet details (between yourself and a few others), which were totally irrelevant and incomprehensible to me at the time. Did I mind that discussion? Not at all. In fact, now that I have a bit more understanding I can go back and learn from it.
That being said, I can still admit being guilty as charged, if it makes you happy. However, it wasn't all fruitless, as it resulted in a very revealing discussion and clearing of air. Besides, if you had a more positive outlook, you'd have the option of taking that hydra-comment as a compliment. I was happy to see the AIC-guru himself using something I'd independently found useful and wondered about whether it was ok to use as a shorthand or not. Of course you'd probably seen my earlier question about it and could have answered back then directly -- which would have benefited the whole community by keeping notations standard -- but just as naturally you didn't, so therefore I couldn't resist when I saw your usage of the same. As for the rest of that comment, I read your "but I stand to be corrected" statement as an honest invitation, so you can't really blame me for that (although you apparently took that as malicious criticism which it was not).
By asking you for your suggestions, I was hoping you would consider not only your own requirements, but also those of others.
I would hope you did the same.
The forum would be in danger of collapse if it were only tailored to the needs of newcomers, because experienced players would be unlikely to stay. It could then turn into a case of one-eyed becoming kings in the land of the blind.
Whatever. You must really be making this up while you go, because I have yet to see any relevant arguments. I guess it's physically impossible for you to admit that I just might have a point, so you just keep moving the goal posts and suggesting slippery-slope scenarios without any evidence of their likelihood.
I'm pretty sure that nothing I've suggested would drive away experienced players, and I definitely have not suggested "only tailoring to the needs of newcomers" (a clear strawman, based on an already denied and ridiculous assumption about my wishes). My suggestions might increase the potential audience, though, but perhaps you'd rather keep certain techniques accessible to a small initiated elite, I don't know. I guess we can both agree that we're done with this discussion anyhow.
Members here do not have a right to demand assistance and no members are duty-bound to provide it.
Really? That's shocking! (You're the only one whom I've seen demanding anything, multiple times.)
Consequently, those that are appreciative of any help from others, get more attention
I've been very appreciative for all the help I've got, including from you. With you I just didn't want to pay the price tag, which was accepting thinly veiled insults and condescending assumptions (the kind you've kept using in this discussion as well). Then again, your constant use of assumptive techniques in discussions, if not sudoku, is actually very effective, as you're finding contradictions at an amazing rate (but for some reason you're not always making the relevant eliminations, as the same assumptions keep coming back).
than those complain that about it being poorly presented or incomplete,
That's one way to react to constructive criticism. Personally I'm grateful if someone gives me ideas to improve a creation of mine, even if I happen to hate the source of such input or the manner in which it's given. On the other hand, it's quite apparent that you can't judge anything I say without a clearly negative bias.
and make personal judgements about the providers.
That part I can understand. Then again, we both made such judgments about each other, but only one of us could put them behind. If holding a grudge forever and withholding information that could benefit everyone gives you satisfaction and a feeling of revenge, so be it. However, you can't claim at the same time that the best interest of the forum is a very high priority to you.
On a personal level, our styles clash. You do not like my style and I do not like yours.
You seem to like black and white type of thinking. Real life isn't sudoku with such simple binary truth values, though. It's obviously true that I don't like some aspects of your style but it's not the whole truth on my part. You're of course free to dislike the whole of me and everything I say and do, if compartmentalizing is too difficult.
Since our initial falling out, the only time I've posted regarding anything you have raised was on Multi-Sector Locked Sets, and that was a damage limitation exercise.
Yep. When you wrote that, I had a glimmer of hope that you'd come to your senses, but it soon vanished as you didn't bother with my friendly follow-up question about your Platinum Blonde JE solution.
You have other friends here who can help you, so it is best if we continue to avoid each other.
At this point I whole-heartedly agree. The main reason why I kept hope alive for a different outcome was for the benefit of the community. Since you've had a hand in developing and standardizing certain widely used practices, it would have naturally been helpful -- and not just for me -- to hear your opinion about certain less clear parts which I've pointed out. It's also been a courtesy to give you a chance to provide that. You've generally chosen not to, which is absolutely your right.
No big deal, though, as those questions have usually been answered one way or another, and I'm not totally clueless about figuring out the missing parts on my own. Like I've said many times, a certain level of initial confusion is actually better for deep learning than spoon-fed flawless information. In that light, perhaps you're even pedagogically right about not implementing my suggested improvements which would decrease that confusion. Usually works for me, at least.