by QBasicMac » Sun Jan 08, 2006 10:32 pm
Right, Pat.
On The QBasic Forum, we often have the same problem. Someone posts a problem and we work hard to provide a useful response and that's it - the sound of crickets chirping.
I coined a term for such a person: "Ephemeralus" One who transiently exists. And I used to waste time trying to embarass ephemerali into responding by writing to their email, PM, etc. I finally recognized that just as there are self-centered people in school, work, and in traffic, such people also exist on forums. They come and ask a question and if they see an answer they go away satisfied. They have never said "thanks" to anyone in their life and don't plan to start now.
Of course, we don't really want thanks as such, it is just that it translates to "the information you provided is adequate". Which, in turn, means we don't have to keep responding with alternate solutions, etc., imagining the OP is still unsatisfied. I wouldn't even mind "I am unable to use your information and am not viewing this thread any longer". At least I know to forget about it.
Well, sorry to bend your ear. You struck a nerve.
Mac