Hi
mith,
mith wrote:Ajò Dimonios wrote:ok thanks i understood where i was wrong
You’re welcome.
And you're a miracle worker!! Am I really seeing the words 'I' and 'wrong' in the same sentence? And even 'thanks'?
Wow. That alone is worthy of recognition in the archives of the Jedi Order!
Apparently I didn't misjudge you when I gave you a non-zero chance of pulling it off. Too bad I lost faith in it right after, but I'm glad to see you didn't.
I also must thank you, because this is the first significant debate in a long time that has achieved any kind of a positive result. For me a debate can end successfully in three ways (in this preference order):
1. Both sides see and admit that they were partly wrong (everyone learns)
2. I see and admit that I was wrong (I learn)
3. The other side sees and admits they were wrong (they learn)
On the other hand, all of these are failures (worst first):
1. Both are at least partly wrong but fail to see it (no one learns, everyone's frustrated)
2. I'm wrong but fail to see it (I don't learn, everyone's frustrated)
3. The other side is wrong but fails to see it (they don't learn, everyone's frustrated)
All of the recent AIC-debates have ended up as failures in that scale, without any kind of a mutually agreeable closure. It's been really frustrating and eating me up. Would you like to arbitrate those too? I think you've proven your skills and impartiality. (Those cases are a tad bit more difficult than this. Here the only failure option was obviously 3, but in those other cases there might be a small chance for other possibilities, too.)
Unlike some people undoubtedly think, I don't have an obsession of winning arguments at any cost. I don't even have an obsession of being right. What I want is the truth to win -- especially if it's not on my side. If someone can convince me that I'm wrong, I'm thankful and more than happy to admit it. What I hate the most is failing to see my own mistakes. If that has happened in any of the recent unclosed debates, I'd really like to know. If not, it would be nice to know that too.