I found a short trail to reduce candidate 2 from r2c7, but couldn't find any shorter than 13 steps for candidate 8. So here's the complete solution, only the neccessary steps included:
r2c2=9
r4c5=5
r7c3=5
1. Finned x-wing in columns 3 and 9 => r9c1<>3
2. If r2c7=4 => r2c4=5 => r3c4=4 => r3c7=5 => UR in r23c47 => r2c7<>4
3. If r2c7=2 => r6c3=2 => r9c9=2 => r8c8=3 => r9c5=1 => r5c6=1 => r4c6=2 => r4c2=3 => nowhere to place 3 in row 5 => r2c7<>2
4. If r2c7=8 => r1c4=8 => r4c4=7 => r2c6=4 => r2c9=2 => r1c9=1 => r7c9=4 => r9c5=1 => r9c7=2 => r5c7=4 => r5c4=6 => r9c4=9 => r7c5=8 => r5c5=empty cell => r2c7<>8
5. If r9c7=7 => r2c7=5 => r3c7=4 => r9c9=2 => r2c9=8 => r2c6=4 => r2c4= empty cell => r9c7<>7
6. If r4c7=2 => r9c9=2 => r8c8=3 => r5c8=4 => r5c7=8 => r5c4=6 => r9c7=9 => r9c4=7 => r9c1=6 => BUG-lite in r1c28, r2c38, r6c23 => r4c7<>2
7. If r9c7=9 => r9c9=2 => r9c5=1 => r4c7=8 => r6c9=3 => r5c78=(24) => r5c45=(68) => r5c1=3 => r4c4=7 => r4c2=2 => r1c2=6 => r1c1=5 => r3c1=7 => r9c1=6 => r9c4= empty cell => r9c7<>9
=> r9c7=2
8. If r5c8=3 => r9c9=3 => r9c5=1 => r5c6=1 => nowhere to place 2 in row 5 => r5c8<>3
9. If r4c7=8 => r4c4=7 => r8c7=9 => r4c8=9 => r6c9=3 => r9c9=1 => r9c45=(69) => nowhere to place 9 in box 7 => r4c7<>8
=> r4c7=9
=> r5c7=8
10. Forcing chain:
If r5c5=1 => r9c9=1 => r8c8=3 => r4c8=2 => r5c8=4 => r5c4=6 => r5c1=3
If r5c6=1 => r5c45=(46) => r5c1=3
=> r3c2=3
11. If r7c2=7 => r9c4=7 => r4c4=8 => r6c45=(49) => r5c4=6 => r5c5=1 => r9c9=1 => r8c8=3 => r4c8=2 => r4c2= empty cell => r7c2<>7
12. If r7c8=7 => r7c5=9 => r8c7=4 => r7c9=1 => r9c5=1 => r27c6=(48) => r8c6=7 => r9c4=6 => r5c4=4 => r6c5=8 => r8c5= empty cell => r7c8<>7
=> r7c6=7
13. Multiple colors on 8 => r6c5<>8 (If r6c5=8 => r8c6=8 => r7c2=8 => nowhere to place 8 in box4)
14. xy-wing in r5c4, r9c4, r6c5 => r6c4 and r789c5<>9
=> r6c5=9
=> r9c4=9
=> r5c4=6
=> r8c1=9
=> r7c8=9
=> r6c1=8
15. Multiple colors on 4 => r5c5<>4 (If r5c5=4 => r6c9=4 => r8c6=4 => nowhere to place 4 in box 9)
=> r5c5=1
Interesting to note that I found a solution with only 3 trails for the "ancient toughest" - this one required a lot more. Doesn't prove that this one is harder, I'm sure there is a shorter solution than this one, but I'd at least say it's right up there in the same league. I checked the puzzle for "magic cells" and there's only one (r6c6=4) that lets us solve the rest with basic techniques and a few that leaves us with some coloring reductions. Most cells don't really help us at all (as I noticed while solving...)
So thanks Emily for the puzzle. If your friend makes any more of these, you can tell him to post them directly here, I think there's always people around here who like great challenges
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